Posted: September 15, 2009 in i wanna know, life, people, relationships, thoughts

this is a question for both genders.

for the sake of the  most effective birth control possible, would you get ‘clipped’ if you’re a man? or ‘tie your tubes’ if you’re a woman? Also, for the men out there, would you let your wives ‘tie her tubes’ in the future knowing that it is a big deal, a full on surgery with anesthesia and risks while getting clipped is a) reversable, and b) less risky and can be done in minutes?

random Q,  which was somehoe inspired after watching some sitcom a while back. it got me thinking, would the average arab male consider these options to begin with? and will the average arab woman be open for such a drastic measure to the ways of nature? But i guess with the side effects of the pill, and the very low percentage of men who would use ‘protection’ after they get married, one may want to think of other options.

  1. Naser says:

    was the sitcom “Scrubs” ? cuz it didn’t work out for him very well 😀
    I don’t know i always thought about it , I’d like to know what those actors-couples who never give birth use really ! lawaGt-ha faraj I’m in no position to think about that ,the least of my concerns

  2. Verbal Alchemy says:

    Naser: hey! No not scrubs, yemken kan Til Death or sth? Ah il kabar 3abar. cant remember.

    u thought about it in the sense inno ah walla option willa shu?

  3. BuJ says:

    i wouldn’t change my body in any permanent way like that, neither would i ever ask a woman to do the same.

  4. mo says:

    my mom got her tubes tied after 5 boys 😮

  5. Marvin says:

    If I was more sexually active prior to my marriage, absolutely I would have, whether or not it was reversible. But I wasn’t, so I didn’t.

    Contraception traditionally puts the burden on the woman, when it’s the man who makes her pregnant. I think it’s appropriate for men to assume more of the burden of contraception or sterilization.

  6. Verbal Alchemy says:

    mo: zein ma sawat (emarati accent) i think some ppl cant take chances after a number of kids, one cant be all that careful. fa something final might be needed.

    but u dint answer, wud U do get clipped one day?

  7. Verbal Alchemy says:

    Marv: i think so too but most men do not rise up and take responsibility for most things :S

  8. KJ says:

    What happened to condoms?

  9. KJ: a study i read once shows that most men will not use it after marriage.

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Google photo

You are commenting using your Google account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s