when friends get married

Posted: October 13, 2008 in damdoumization, feelings, inside out, life

my best friend of 5 years will be getting married in Jan, and moving away to her soon-to-be husband’s country of origin, as he is happy and she also loves it there, in addition to that, he has a great job where he will be providing very well for her and their future family.

we call each other everyday in the mornings, or sms to check up on one another, we used to work together for a year then i left but we still kept that ritual of early morning smss and calls, every alternating weekend of outings and catching up, and every problem shared and discussed as if we’re sisters.. and somehow, we grew to become just that.

as hard as it is for me to say goodbye, i cant be selfish and ask her to stay. its so difficult finding friends when you’re not a kid, and in such a cruel city with no genuine social contacts, it will be hard going forward.. oh well, i guess life is really a series of meetings and partings..


  1. chika says:

    well, enshalla you get married soon too ;p

  2. Verbal Alchemy says:

    Chika: LOL the answer to all problems! 😀 3e2balek enti kaman 😉

  3. Qwaider says:

    You answer your problems, and start all ours 🙂
    Mabrook to your friend, and soon to you

  4. Princess N says:

    She leaving the country should not necessarily mean that things will not be the same, my best friend got married 8 years ago and moved to another country, we might not talk to each other on a daily basis but when she come to Amman for a visit it feels as if she never left..
    You dont need to tell her goodbye, just say see you soon..

  5. iselldreams says:

    my sister is getting married in December
    i m also feeling sad but happy on her name
    mixture of all emotions!
    o yea, your marriage is a good idea as well

  6. Verbal Alchemy says:

    Qwaider: thanks Samer, inshalla 🙂

  7. Verbal Alchemy says:

    Princess N: i know it doesnt mean an end, just an emptiness. we’re like sisters and more, i dont even have this relationship with my sister 😐 im gonna miss out outings and gossip sessions lol

  8. Verbal Alchemy says:

    You Sell Dreams: congrats to ur sis 🙂 and if ur not, hopefully u shall follow soon..

  9. iselldreams says:

    awww thank you for your wish
    Actually i m married as well…
    so it s ur turn:P

  10. Verbal Alchemy says:

    YSD: it certainly is! im engaged but wedding date still not set. keep ur fingers crossed there virtual didi 😉

  11. KJ says:

    Bribe her husband… or better yet, catch him doing something she shouldn’t know about and blackmail

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