Posted: July 22, 2008 in damdoumization, life, people, psychobabble, random, thoughts

* life is hard, man! we watch too many movies and listen to too many songs and read too many books to convince ourselves that happy endings and fairytales are possible, but in reality, life is fairly hard! things dont happen like we want them to, or expect them to, or even as they’re supposed to after a series of events and pursuances! there is always a way things can be messed up, and it usually DOES happen. i am not being pessemistic here, but i guess i have had enough time being the optimistic fool that i am…

* i truly believe every human has one form or another of a psychological illness/abnormality/disorder.  also i always believed that people are schizophrenic by nature. since we have a ‘heart’ and a ‘mind’ and usually they’re on different frequencies.. unless one of them is more dominant than the other, EVERYONE has at least a pair of disorders!

* its amazing how people come into our lives and bring a little of their karma with them.. im sure u have met at least one person who brought you a bit of good luck in a moment in time, i believe like attracts like, and people are contageous.. if your disposition is happy, it will rub off on the people in your small and even big circle.. if your mood is often blue and negative you will somehow pass it on to the people around you.. whether you want to or not.. people are but bottles of colors! you bring your blue and the person next to you brings their red, and you both will end up with a little bit of purple..

* for every action there is indeed a reaction..! the intensity of it however depends on how deep the psychological disorders of the person are!

  1. KJ says:

    I totally agree on the karma thing 🙂 I have lots of stories to tell there!

    Yes, people don’t admit it, but we ALL, without exception, have some psychological issues. We just keep them to ourselves, and most of them are solved with time. As long as they’re not so sever they affect our lives directly, most are safe to put away in the back of our head

  2. True!
    – Life is hard. Hope for the best, but prepare for the worst. That way, life can’t fuck you over too badly.
    – The battle between heart and mind is a fundamental design flaw of the human species. The mind is a decent “feeler,” but the heart is a lousy “thinker,” so I let my mind govern my actions, and I ignore the spurious input from my heart.
    – We are each meant to learn from people whom we encounter. I like your color analogy. Like attracts like. If I want to attract nice, sunny people, I try to radiate sunny niceness. It seems to work. 😉
    – True, Newton’s 3rd Law sort of applies with people, but it does vary according to the weirdnesses of the people on whom you are having an effect. 😛

  3. Simply Me says:

    This is the best post I have read since ages. The first point is like me talking, and the second one is just so true in a funny way.

  4. NasEr says:

    ohhhh where do i start.
    1st i hope everything is fine,or not so bad !
    i agree on the disorder part,tho I’m still convinced that Americans only have disorders 😀 in our case,its you’re either NEKED by nature,or simple crazy ! ignorance is a blessing ?
    i hate all gloomy and always-depressed characters,i try to change them,it often work,if they didn’t i walk away,I’m so optemestic that i made up a quote yesterday while showering 😀 ” I Like hitting rock bottom, on the way down i always order a trampoline ” 😀 chillllll
    hope u r feeling well ,and change the theme of your “boxet bandora” theme plz :3yoo6: 😛

  5. Jasim says:

    I completely agree.

    So let me clear something here; Dimz has turned from the optimistic side, to the pessimistic side… Welcome. 😛

  6. Verbal Alchemy says:

    KJ: true but there comes a time when they cease to become safe and these disorders surface like there’s no tomorrow! it takes the right person (or event) to awaken the beast within! but there IS a beast within!

  7. Verbal Alchemy says:

    Marv: it takes a lot of time and effort and even a number of experiences in life for a person to become more dependent on the ‘head’ than the ‘heart’ in the case where they both are active.. kudos if u can!

    glad u like the analogy, we’re here to please remember 😀

  8. Verbal Alchemy says:

    Dima: thanks bannout, i guess gr8 minds think alike 😉

  9. Verbal Alchemy says:

    Neutron: thanks : )

  10. Verbal Alchemy says:

    Naser: Neked by nature is just another form of depression and repressed anger 😛 americans are good at classifying and pinpointing the disorders, we live with them and ignore them but they’re there.

  11. Verbal Alchemy says:

    Jasim: im still optimistic, just not foolishly so 😀

  12. Pru says:

    I finally made it here 🙂

    Reality is more pleasant than any tale sometimes and happy endings are indeed a frequent occurrence, but as life does not stop at the happy “ending”, a state of continuous happiness cannot be maintained. It is always ups and downs until our time is spent!

    Cheer up sweets 🙂

  13. Verbal Alchemy says:

    Pru: welcome back 😀 i remember u made it here before 😉

    happiness is variable true, but contentment shud help.. yet its even hard being content in this day and age :*oh:

    well, seeing u here made my day dear, bless!

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