You know what, Hollywood has been playing with our heads for so long, most of us are delusional with the idea of the ‘perfect love story’, ‘true love’, ‘soulmates’.. I admit i was delusional too.. Love isnt seamless and easy and sweet all the time, movies dont show what happens next after the big proposal, or [...]
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on marriage and men
Posted: September 20, 2010 in bla bla bla, damdoumization, men, observations, psychobabble, relationships, theories, thoughtsthis post has been brewing in my mind for a while. so has the subject. im an observant more than anything in life. well that, and an ‘inane chatter’ as a friend once put it. and you know what? I am not a fan of generalizing and stereotyping but I gotta say this whole heartedly [...]
a love hate relationship
Posted: April 16, 2010 in damdoumization, people, relationships, theories, thoughtsWiki defines a love hate relationship as follows: A love-hate relationship is a personal relationship involving simultaneous or alternating emotions of love and enmity. This relationship does not have to be of a romantic nature, and may be instead of a sibling one. It may occur when people have completely lost the intimacy within a [...]
January.. overlook
Posted: February 20, 2010 in bittersweet, damdoumization, feelings, inside out, people, relationships, thoughtsThis January was one big wedgie! I swear my life is one crazy rollercoaster and a series of dramatic events that I do not know how and why I keep coming across. But no complaints, I guess no one can do my life but me. and I believe that God knows my capacity, and wont [...]
this is a question for both genders. for the sake of the most effective birth control possible, would you get ‘clipped’ if you’re a man? or ‘tie your tubes’ if you’re a woman? Also, for the men out there, would you let your wives ’tie her tubes’ in the future knowing that it is a big deal, a [...]
Deception
Posted: March 17, 2009 in bla bla bla, damdoumization, psychobabble, relationships, theories, thoughts, Uncategorizedthe psychology of deception is an interesting study, especially that of self-deception.. deception by general defenition is the act of convincing another to believe information that is not true, or not the whole truth. (brought to you by Wiki). (personally i believe hiding facts is just as horrible and hurtful as lying). Self-deception is the process [...]
change is the only constant
Posted: January 25, 2009 in feelings, observations, people, relationships, thoughtseverything else is variable.. i completely agree with that proverb. everyone changes at some point, i believe it happens at least once every 5 years of ones life, some change occurs in preferences, taste, degree of stubbornness, some qualities mellow out, others become more intense.. even if it was a very small change, it happens, personally, some things i liked [...]
4 words a man never wants to hear: “we need to talk” since usually they’re followed up by 4 words he knows he will hear: “this is not working!” 3 words a woman fears to ask: “what are we” since she will probably hear the next 3 words: “nothing but friends” (or in some scenarios “friends [...]
bad boy syndrome
Posted: October 5, 2008 in life, observations, people, psychobabble, relationships, thoughts, womenas opposed to common belief, good girls DONT always love bad boys, but MOST of them get attracted to one (at the very least) in their lifetime. why i hear you ask? i have noticed, after a lot of observation, that the unfortunate truth about women is that they are stupid enough to think they can change men, of course [...]
a tale of two entities.. independent and on her own.. thought she needs not a partner, all she needed were friends.. silent when times are tough, even when her eyes can scream the words.. they found each other when they both werent looking.. it was an instant connection, love at first sight.. they [...]
Love and hate: are 2 faces to the same coin. a thin line separates them.. intense emotions of dislike can turn into the most passionate love if given a chance to blossom, and the corniest of love stories can turn into the fiercest war.. to forgive is divine they say.. and i truly agree. [...]
what do women want? the common question we see women demand an answer for (and almost never get one) is “what do men want?“, but i hereby ask: what do women want?! im an observer, fascinated by mankind, always looking around to seek answers to yet un-asked questions, studying attitudes and -sometimes- analyzing behaviors.. thats [...]
Sorry seems to be the hardest word.. not! i think sorry isnt the hardest word to say these days.. i believe “will u marry me” r the hardest words nowadays!! has it become so hard for men to propose? i mean ok dowry is on the rise, and inflation is a nightmare etc etc [...]
no not Qwaider but a question, for both genders, how far wud u go supporting ur man financially when ur both still starting up ur life? and how much wud u accept ur wife to help out with?
life grammar 101..
Posted: February 5, 2008 in bla bla bla, damdoumization, life, observations, relationshipsPast Progressive – Use: 1) actions were in progress at special time in the past example from life: They were playing the field actively in their youth.. 2) two actions were happening at the same time (the actions do not influence each other) example from life: He was having his coffee, while she was lost [...]
its all bout marriage these past few days.. on the radio, blogs, and even my friends were talking bout it over the weekend… but sadly, the comments and convos were negative.. “why bother getting married? im satisfied with how my life is!” or “why get married when 80% of marriages are ending with divorce?” or [...]
