(WARNING: long psychobabble post ahead, purely my theories and mumbles) Isnt it funny how high school behaviour patterns and paradigms continue into adulthood and into the office environment? I think most people fully evolve by the age of 16 (child psychology suggests personality starts becoming consistent starting at the age of 5) I think by [...]
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high school personality patterns continue
Posted: April 20, 2010 in damdoumization, observations, people, psychobabble, theories, thoughtsa love hate relationship
Posted: April 16, 2010 in damdoumization, people, relationships, theories, thoughtsWiki defines a love hate relationship as follows: A love-hate relationship is a personal relationship involving simultaneous or alternating emotions of love and enmity. This relationship does not have to be of a romantic nature, and may be instead of a sibling one. It may occur when people have completely lost the intimacy within a [...]
January.. overlook
Posted: February 20, 2010 in bittersweet, damdoumization, feelings, inside out, people, relationships, thoughtsThis January was one big wedgie! I swear my life is one crazy rollercoaster and a series of dramatic events that I do not know how and why I keep coming across. But no complaints, I guess no one can do my life but me. and I believe that God knows my capacity, and wont [...]
this is a question for both genders. for the sake of the most effective birth control possible, would you get ‘clipped’ if you’re a man? or ‘tie your tubes’ if you’re a woman? Also, for the men out there, would you let your wives ’tie her tubes’ in the future knowing that it is a big deal, a [...]
how judgemental are you?
Posted: September 14, 2009 in damdoumization, people, psychobabble, theories, thoughtsno its not a quiz post. i tend to see the word as ‘judge’ & ‘mental’ to tell you the truth! i dont think i was ever that judgemental, except when i was younger maybe, i had my few moments. however, the longer my journey goes is in this life, the more relaxed and laid back i have [...]
* hypocrites must be, in addition to liars, my most loathed category of society. i dont understand how can one think something, and do another. or be nice to someone in the face, and then take their chance at bashing/offending them behind their backs, in the case im referring to, it was deliberate, & right [...]
change is the only constant
Posted: January 25, 2009 in feelings, observations, people, relationships, thoughtseverything else is variable.. i completely agree with that proverb. everyone changes at some point, i believe it happens at least once every 5 years of ones life, some change occurs in preferences, taste, degree of stubbornness, some qualities mellow out, others become more intense.. even if it was a very small change, it happens, personally, some things i liked [...]
this morbidly obese economy is experiencing a minor heart attack.. or is it a major one? what bothers me most, besides that our jobs are at stake and everything is so uncertain. is that no one wants to tell you what’s going on honestly & clearly! either the decision makers in Dubai are in complete [...]
4 words a man never wants to hear: “we need to talk” since usually they’re followed up by 4 words he knows he will hear: “this is not working!” 3 words a woman fears to ask: “what are we” since she will probably hear the next 3 words: “nothing but friends” (or in some scenarios “friends [...]
bad boy syndrome
Posted: October 5, 2008 in life, observations, people, psychobabble, relationships, thoughts, womenas opposed to common belief, good girls DONT always love bad boys, but MOST of them get attracted to one (at the very least) in their lifetime. why i hear you ask? i have noticed, after a lot of observation, that the unfortunate truth about women is that they are stupid enough to think they can change men, of course [...]
and the last one for now : ) _____________________________________________________________________________________ Redundancy.. as much as i like to think there is diversity in this world, i feel our community has become redundant to an annoying extent.. 1. almost every girl looks the same, 4 major categories bi nazari, the brunette haifa wahbeh wannabes, the blonde california-dream kinda [...]
* life is hard, man! we watch too many movies and listen to too many songs and read too many books to convince ourselves that happy endings and fairytales are possible, but in reality, life is fairly hard! things dont happen like we want them to, or expect them to, or even as they’re supposed to after [...]
are just like pythons. even worse, they can talk! seriously i have known a lot of people in my short life, but there is one particular person i came across, who has exceeded all levels of evilness with her venomous character.. and its amazing that she actually has a number of ‘friends’, even a husband! im [...]
been meaning to write this for a while since i get to see so many people every day, most of them at my office building are so elegant and very polished, but there are a few misses.. and when i go out, i see the ultimate fashion crimes everywhere! i dont understand is it me who [...]
financial status, position, social background and nationality… how important are these factors to when chosing and making friends? (whether in school, uni, or work)
Sorry seems to be the hardest word.. not! i think sorry isnt the hardest word to say these days.. i believe “will u marry me” r the hardest words nowadays!! has it become so hard for men to propose? i mean ok dowry is on the rise, and inflation is a nightmare etc etc [...]
isnt it funny how when ur a 5 year old, anyone who’s ready to jump with you on a bed or build sand castles with you is automatically considered a friend, and if you were to share a sandwich they will be considered a best friend! but when you’re 25 or over it becomes so much harder to call almost [...]
Two, Four, Six, Eight! How Do You Know Your Kids Are Straight?
Posted: February 12, 2008 in bla bla bla, people, random, thoughtsi always hear ppl questioning whether or not gayness is acquired or is it embedded in ppl. its deffenitely not a gene. and i dont believe one is born with the tendency, we r straight by nature ppl!
Conscience is an ability or sense that distinguishes whether our actions r right or wrong. It is also the attitude which informs our moral judgment before performing any action. Freud regarded conscience as originating in the superego, which takes its cue from our parents during childhood. According to Freud, the consequence of not obeying our [...]
you are what you eat
Posted: January 21, 2011 in no comment, observations, people, rantyou are what you drive. you are where you live. tell me who your friends are, i’ll tell you who you are. etc etc. why is this constant need to analyze people by their possessions/ food intake/ company/ cars/ brands, and all other things we do/own/ people we associate with. what is the need to [...]